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3 Simple Truths About Success

Without continual growth and progress, such words as improvement, achievement, and success have no meaning.
– Benjamin Franklin

Success doesn’t come overnight

Have you ever thought about the high level of success you could attain, if only you spent one hour a day improving your skills and abilities?
Have you ever thought where you could be now, if only you started to work for your goals one year ago? And what if you started five years ago?
You see, it’s all about small steps, consistency and motivation. When we know what we want, we can reach any goal, if we take action.
But we have to work for it: success doesn’t come overnight, and unleashing our potential requires hard work and determination.

Discipline is the only predictor of success, no shortcuts!

If you really want to shift your life, you have to behave as if you were your own employer.
You need to be a demanding employer with yourself, and you need to be a highly responsible employee at the same time, working as if you you had a demanding boss always controlling you.
You need discipline, because real accomplishments come with patience, perseverance and hard work.

Organization is the key

Step-by-step improvement is a simple concept, but if you don’t get organized, you can make it difficult, and you might feel overwhelmed, nervous, and frustrated, because you don’t even know where to start.
The simplest way to structure your life is writing down all the things you have to do, and organize your life daily. You can use a to-do list, your agenda, or a blackboard, but the most important thing is to write down everything, in order to avoid mental stress.

Practice the philosophy of continuous improvement. Get a little bit better every single day.
– Brian Tracy

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The Art of Getting What You Want: The 3P Factor

A dream doesn’t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination and hard work.
– Colin Powell

Have you ever heard of the Giant Bamboo story?
If you listen to the story, I’m sure you will immediately understand how important it can be in your life, and how much you can learn from it.
Watch this video, and then feel free to share your experience in the comments.

 

The underlying message of this video is:

“Even though you can’t see concrete results right now, don’t stop, don’t give up, just keep moving forward, you will receive a reward at the end of your journey. But please, don’t stop!”

So, what is this video about?

The man in the video was working hard, but he somehow started to feel discouraged, as he could not see immediate results. That is, he didn’t feel as he was developing himself and he hadn’t seen any meaningful achievement for a while.
This doesn’t mean he wasn’t producing any outcome. He was working on his personal growth, and his better version of himself was growing a little bit every day “under the ground”, but he didn’t know that. He just couldn’t see it.

His mentor explained to him that even though he couldn’t see results or concrete achievements yet, he was learning and developing himself. This process was necessary for his potential to grow.

With this video, we saw that “daily watering” – that is, small daily actions and good habits – is the most important thing.
All those small steps that contribute to our personal growth, or to the development of a project, make a small difference every day. And they are the key to big accomplishments.
Over time, they become realized in a sudden and surprising growth. If we know this, we are already on the right path to get where we want.

When we work hard, we’ll necessarily experience a period of time in which we can’t see an outcome.
During that period it’s vital to remember that we are building something big, and we can’t stop.

The 3P Factor: the art of getting what you want

When we want to succeed in something, we absolutely need the appropriate knowledge and the right skills, but that’s not enough. That’s probably 50% of what we need: it’s also essential to have the right mindset and attitude.

This is actually what makes the difference, because in order to reach our goals we need those qualities that boost our personal growth. And I’m referring to those features that give us the strength to get exactly where we want: perseverance and patience. These two elements together are what we need to make things simpler, possible and attainable. When we learn to be patient and to never give up, we start overcoming our limits and our fears.

When we understand that sometimes delayed gratifications are better than immediate rewards, we start learning and practicing patience and perseverance in our life.
We start doing things we were scared of, and little by little we start to unleash our potential.

3P stands for…

The 3P Factor is the magic combination of:

  1. Patience,
  2. Perseverance and
  3. Potential

Patience is the ability to get rid of the need of seeing results immediately.
In other words is the ability to wait for delayed gratification and to give up on immediate pleasure or lower value gratification.

Perseverance is the ability to be resilient and to keep going without stopping, even when we lose hope.

Potential is the set of skills and abilities that could lead us to realize our dreams, but we need to “activate” it by taking action, being patient and persistent.

These three elements together are what helps us and supports us when we can’t see results and consequently feel discouraged, they are what takes us beyond our limits even when we don’t believe in ourselves anymore.

Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in the low time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass. The spring will come.

-Robert H. Schuller

If the key to getting what we want is being persistent – with patience – it’s important to know how to improve our perseverance.

And to do that we must remember that if we “water” our potential it with patience, perseverance, good habits and small daily actions, we can reach almost anything, and we can develop the art of getting what we want.

Sometimes great achievements arrive later than we expect, but they arrive, and they are great.
All we have to do is patiently persevere in maximizing our potential.

The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential… these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.

– Confucius

Feel free to leave a comment and share your experience! 🙂

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How to be Successful: 3 Things you Need to Know

“Why do some people succeed, whereas others fail or give up?”
I think I’ve heard this question somewhere already, and you?
Maybe this is because we all share something in common, and this is the desire of being successful and important. But not many people are able to turn their dreams into reality.
The good news is that success can be achieved, even though it does not come easy.

To reach high levels of success, you must start to develop theimage habits of highly successful people.
Success requires constant hard work, an excellent time management, resilience and motivation – and these are common traits of efficient people, who managed to have a successful life.

There are some steps you need to follow, in order to develop the outstanding person you want to become and to feel satisfied and proud of who you are.

1. Write every day a to-do list and stick to it
First of all you should increase your self-esteem by taking action. You have to fill your days being as productive as you can, in order to achieve your goals.
A very useful tool that can help you organise your day is the to-do list.
It’s also very important that every day you cross all the items off your list.
If you can make this your daily goal, you will achieve a lot in the long run.
Plus, taking action will make you feel more confident, since it will show you what you are capable of.

2. Think big!
Second, remember to think big.
This is, you have to set big and realistic goals if you want to improve yourself and your life. You have to raise your standards, this is the only way to create success.
This said, don’t be too afraid of failure.
If you are too afraid of what the risks might be, you will stay forever in your comfort zone, and you won’t be able to raise your standards.
Plus, you won’t learn that much, and you won’t see any progress.

“Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.” Henry Ford

3. Do what others don’t like to do
Last but not least, I would like to share with you the most important secret of successful people.
According to Albert E.N. Gray, the common denominator of success – the secret of success of every person who has ever been successful – lies in the fact that the person formed the habit of doing things that others don’t like to do.

In other words, these people Gray refers to, one day decided to eliminate laziness and procrastination from their lives.
They started taking action, they created success investing in their competencies and managing their time, to achieve their long-term goals.
If you can do this – and believe me, you can – you will be able to dramatically change your life.

You have to train yourself to be constant and to never give up, to focus on your goals and on your desire of becoming successful, even though you will face difficult moments.
In those moments you will have to focus again on your goals and on how much you desire success; you will have to train your resilience, and you will become stronger in order to achieve more and more in your life.

I hope this post will help you to find the right motivation every day.
Have a nice day, and don’t forget your to-do list!

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